We have some big news for all of you...
In July of 2010, Mark and I are going to become parents!! I am currently almost 12 weeks pregnant, and it has been hard to keep it a secret for even that long! We decided not to tell ANYBODY until we had our first doctor's appointment and ultrasound to confirm everything. But of course, we failed at not telling anybody, so we spilled the beans to just our families first, and then a few friends here and there... oops, we couldn't keep our mouths shut! But today we had our very first ultrasound, which confirmed there is in fact a baby in there (I was a little doubtful, I must admit)! So I've posted some pictures, although they are not the best of quality, and I tried to post a video of the ultrasound, which was amazing to see, but for some reason it isn't working. Baby did a bit of moving for us, and we got to see arms and legs moving around (apparently it had its legs crossed!), and we saw the heart beating (160 beats per minute!).
So let me give you a little background info...
Right after we moved here in August, Mark and I decided we were ready to try and have a baby (or as ready as we would ever be). We were both convinced it would take a while for us to actually get pregnant, so we thought we might as well just see what happens.
So, long story short, 3 months later, I found out I was pregnant! I found out on October 30th, 2009 and I was home alone while Mark was at work. I took 2 pregnancy tests, and both turned positive right away, and I brought them to show Mark when I picked him up from the train station after work!! He got this huge smile on his face and was so excited!!
So after the initial excitement died down a bit, I started the process of finding a LMC (Lead Maternity Carer). It's a bit of a different process here than in the US. Here all maternity care is free, but there are restrictions. For example, all pregnant women are entitled to a midwife, but if you want to have an obstetrician, then you have to pay for that, unless you are considered high risk, and then your OB is paid for by the government. Anyway, I had my first midwife appointment on December 10th (which seemed like the longest wait in the world!) and now that the we have confirmed our pregnancy via ultrasound, we felt it was time to share the news! We've kept track of the past 8 weeks since we couldn't post them to share with you, so we have posted them after the fact, in case you are interested
WEEK 5 (Oct 30- Nov. 5)
Symptoms: none! I still don't even really believe I'm pregnant!
Weight gain this week: 0 lbs
Total weight gain: 0 lbs
How we are feeling: Cautiously excited! We are so happy, but it seems pretty surreal! I think once we confirm with a doctor and get an ultrasound we will feel a lot more confident about this whole thing. I want to tell everybody, but I know that would be a bit premature. At this point I have told my parents, my sisters, and Mark's parents and a few select friends. They have been sworn to secrecy, but we will see if that actually lasts! Our first doctor's appointment is not until December 10th so we are waiting until after that to make sure everything is ok and going as it should be.
WEEK 6 (Nov. 6- Nov 12)
Symptoms: A little tired, but not sure if that's a result of pregnancy or long days of work and soccer. Also some cramping and stomach pains, but no nausea so far so that's good! I have been able to stay very active so far, still playing soccer 4-5 times per week, which is nice! Some days I still feel no symptoms at all.
Weight gain this week: 0 lbs
Total weight gain: 0 lbs
Any other changes: We are still counting down the days until December 10th! Because I don't feel pregnant, it's hard to believe that this is real.
What's happening with baby: It's fun to read about our little baby's development each week. This week the baby's heart begins to beat, and little buds for arms and legs begin to form. A bunch of other monumental developments are occurring, but at this point our little one is only about 3-5mm long!
WEEK 7 (Nov 13- Nov 19)
Symptoms: Fatigue has hit me a bit hard this week, and of course it would figure that it's the week my parents are here to visit. I've also been a bit irritable and having some stomach pain and cramping. For the first time in my life, I am not able to eat a lot of food at one sitting, and sometimes I feel like I just can't eat at all!
Weight gain this week: 1 lb
Total weight gain: 1 lb
Any other changes: We bought our first baby item since finding out we were pregnant. We went into a baby store just to look, and they had this stroller I really wanted and it was $200 off! It was a one day only special, and I'm a sucker for a deal, so we bought it! Woohoo! We also scheduled our first ultrasound (which does not happen at our first appointment), so that will be Dec. 21st! That's the new date to look forward to!
What's happening with baby: Rapid brain and head growth is occurring this week. The baby now measures 7-9 mm, and has both arms and legs that resemble little paddles.
WEEK 8 (Nov 20- Nov 26)
Symptoms: Sort of the same as last week, plus more tired and more nauseous!
Weight gain this week: -2lb
Total weight gain: -1lb
Any other changes:
What's happening with baby: Pigment is developing in the retina's of the baby's eyes, and ears are starting to form. Jaw, facial muscles, and teeth are beginning to form. Baby is 11-14 mm long (1/2 inch)
WEEK 9 (Nov 27- Dec 3)
Symptoms: Pretty much the same as prior weeks, in fact, one day I slept from 11pm to 11am, then took a nap from 1:30-4:30pm! I literally slept the entire day away! Still feeling nauseous, and I don't have much of an appetite. But now we're getting excited because we have our first appointment in a week, and we get to see our baby in 3!
Weight gain this week: 0 lbs
Total weight gain: -1lb
Any other changes:
What's happening with baby: Baby is now the size of an olive
WEEK 10 (Dec 4 - Dec 10)
Symptoms: Fatigue! Not as much morning sickness, although it's hard to tell since I had the stomach flu for part of this week.
Weight gain this week: -1 lb
Total weight gain: -2lb
Any other changes: Well I got the stomach flu this week, which was a bit scary, and definitely not fun! This also definitely contributed to the weight loss!
What's happening with baby: The external ears are almost completely developed, as are they eyelids and tongue. For the first time, baby's limbs are capable of purposeful movement. Baby is about 29mm long (over an inch)!
Doctor's appointment #1: Dec 10, 2009
We met with our midwife, and she seems very nice and I think we are going to like her a lot. This meeting was mostly about paperwork, and starting to form a birth plan. We did find out some interesting things about where we can have the baby here. If we want to have the baby in a hospital (which we do), there are 2 options. This is how she explained it to us: Hospital #1 has individual rooms, with their own bathroom/shower/tub, and pretty much every birthing tool available to you that you could possibly want. The kicker- no epidurals. Oh and they are not equipped to deal with emergencies, so if anything goes wrong, you need to go in an ambulance to the other hospital. Ok so that clearly is not happening for us. The second hospital is much larger, more crowded (shared rooms, lots of people), but they have the ability to deal with anything, and, they can administer epidurals. Looks like it wasn't really much of a decision to make... The other amazing thing about having a baby here is that everything is free (no insurance necessary), which is completely opposite from the US.
WEEK 11 (Dec 11- Dec 17)
Symptoms: My body feels so hot all the time!! I've been able to eat almost normally, although still so exhausted!
Weight gain this week: 1 lb
Total weight gain: -1lb
Any other changes: Nope. Nothing too exciting to report, so I suppose that's a good thing. I keep reading all these things about how much weight people gain in the first trimester and how they already look pregnant, and I think they must be crazy seeing how the baby is less than 2 inches still. I look the exact same as I have always looked!
WEEK 12 (Dec 18- Dec 24)
Symptoms: Nothing different from last week really.
Weight gain this week: so far 0 lbs...
Total weight gain: S
Any other changes: We had our first ultrasound this week, and it was AMAZING. I forgot to mention that at our midwife appointment, she tried to listen to baby's heartbeat with a doppler, and she couldn't hear it. She warned us in advance she probably wouldn't be able to find it that early, and we might only hear it if she got lucky, but it was still a bit disheartening to not be able to hear it! I still kept doubting that I was really pregnant! But seeing the baby on the ultrasound made it all very very real!
What's happening with baby: At this point the baby's skin is sensitive, and any type of touch will cause it to move. Also, when the baby's face is touched, it will open its mouth. Baby is also about 2 1/2 inches long.
And now we're up to date!!
So let me give you a little background info...
Right after we moved here in August, Mark and I decided we were ready to try and have a baby (or as ready as we would ever be). We were both convinced it would take a while for us to actually get pregnant, so we thought we might as well just see what happens.
So, long story short, 3 months later, I found out I was pregnant! I found out on October 30th, 2009 and I was home alone while Mark was at work. I took 2 pregnancy tests, and both turned positive right away, and I brought them to show Mark when I picked him up from the train station after work!! He got this huge smile on his face and was so excited!!
So after the initial excitement died down a bit, I started the process of finding a LMC (Lead Maternity Carer). It's a bit of a different process here than in the US. Here all maternity care is free, but there are restrictions. For example, all pregnant women are entitled to a midwife, but if you want to have an obstetrician, then you have to pay for that, unless you are considered high risk, and then your OB is paid for by the government. Anyway, I had my first midwife appointment on December 10th (which seemed like the longest wait in the world!) and now that the we have confirmed our pregnancy via ultrasound, we felt it was time to share the news! We've kept track of the past 8 weeks since we couldn't post them to share with you, so we have posted them after the fact, in case you are interested
WEEK 5 (Oct 30- Nov. 5)
Symptoms: none! I still don't even really believe I'm pregnant!
Weight gain this week: 0 lbs
Total weight gain: 0 lbs
How we are feeling: Cautiously excited! We are so happy, but it seems pretty surreal! I think once we confirm with a doctor and get an ultrasound we will feel a lot more confident about this whole thing. I want to tell everybody, but I know that would be a bit premature. At this point I have told my parents, my sisters, and Mark's parents and a few select friends. They have been sworn to secrecy, but we will see if that actually lasts! Our first doctor's appointment is not until December 10th so we are waiting until after that to make sure everything is ok and going as it should be.
WEEK 6 (Nov. 6- Nov 12)
Symptoms: A little tired, but not sure if that's a result of pregnancy or long days of work and soccer. Also some cramping and stomach pains, but no nausea so far so that's good! I have been able to stay very active so far, still playing soccer 4-5 times per week, which is nice! Some days I still feel no symptoms at all.
Weight gain this week: 0 lbs
Total weight gain: 0 lbs
Any other changes: We are still counting down the days until December 10th! Because I don't feel pregnant, it's hard to believe that this is real.
What's happening with baby: It's fun to read about our little baby's development each week. This week the baby's heart begins to beat, and little buds for arms and legs begin to form. A bunch of other monumental developments are occurring, but at this point our little one is only about 3-5mm long!
WEEK 7 (Nov 13- Nov 19)
Symptoms: Fatigue has hit me a bit hard this week, and of course it would figure that it's the week my parents are here to visit. I've also been a bit irritable and having some stomach pain and cramping. For the first time in my life, I am not able to eat a lot of food at one sitting, and sometimes I feel like I just can't eat at all!
Weight gain this week: 1 lb
Total weight gain: 1 lb
Any other changes: We bought our first baby item since finding out we were pregnant. We went into a baby store just to look, and they had this stroller I really wanted and it was $200 off! It was a one day only special, and I'm a sucker for a deal, so we bought it! Woohoo! We also scheduled our first ultrasound (which does not happen at our first appointment), so that will be Dec. 21st! That's the new date to look forward to!
What's happening with baby: Rapid brain and head growth is occurring this week. The baby now measures 7-9 mm, and has both arms and legs that resemble little paddles.
WEEK 8 (Nov 20- Nov 26)
Symptoms: Sort of the same as last week, plus more tired and more nauseous!
Weight gain this week: -2lb
Total weight gain: -1lb
Any other changes:
What's happening with baby: Pigment is developing in the retina's of the baby's eyes, and ears are starting to form. Jaw, facial muscles, and teeth are beginning to form. Baby is 11-14 mm long (1/2 inch)
WEEK 9 (Nov 27- Dec 3)
Symptoms: Pretty much the same as prior weeks, in fact, one day I slept from 11pm to 11am, then took a nap from 1:30-4:30pm! I literally slept the entire day away! Still feeling nauseous, and I don't have much of an appetite. But now we're getting excited because we have our first appointment in a week, and we get to see our baby in 3!
Weight gain this week: 0 lbs
Total weight gain: -1lb
Any other changes:
What's happening with baby: Baby is now the size of an olive
WEEK 10 (Dec 4 - Dec 10)
Symptoms: Fatigue! Not as much morning sickness, although it's hard to tell since I had the stomach flu for part of this week.
Weight gain this week: -1 lb
Total weight gain: -2lb
Any other changes: Well I got the stomach flu this week, which was a bit scary, and definitely not fun! This also definitely contributed to the weight loss!
What's happening with baby: The external ears are almost completely developed, as are they eyelids and tongue. For the first time, baby's limbs are capable of purposeful movement. Baby is about 29mm long (over an inch)!
Doctor's appointment #1: Dec 10, 2009
We met with our midwife, and she seems very nice and I think we are going to like her a lot. This meeting was mostly about paperwork, and starting to form a birth plan. We did find out some interesting things about where we can have the baby here. If we want to have the baby in a hospital (which we do), there are 2 options. This is how she explained it to us: Hospital #1 has individual rooms, with their own bathroom/shower/tub, and pretty much every birthing tool available to you that you could possibly want. The kicker- no epidurals. Oh and they are not equipped to deal with emergencies, so if anything goes wrong, you need to go in an ambulance to the other hospital. Ok so that clearly is not happening for us. The second hospital is much larger, more crowded (shared rooms, lots of people), but they have the ability to deal with anything, and, they can administer epidurals. Looks like it wasn't really much of a decision to make... The other amazing thing about having a baby here is that everything is free (no insurance necessary), which is completely opposite from the US.
WEEK 11 (Dec 11- Dec 17)
Symptoms: My body feels so hot all the time!! I've been able to eat almost normally, although still so exhausted!
Weight gain this week: 1 lb
Total weight gain: -1lb
Any other changes: Nope. Nothing too exciting to report, so I suppose that's a good thing. I keep reading all these things about how much weight people gain in the first trimester and how they already look pregnant, and I think they must be crazy seeing how the baby is less than 2 inches still. I look the exact same as I have always looked!
WEEK 12 (Dec 18- Dec 24)
Symptoms: Nothing different from last week really.
Weight gain this week: so far 0 lbs...
Total weight gain: S
Any other changes: We had our first ultrasound this week, and it was AMAZING. I forgot to mention that at our midwife appointment, she tried to listen to baby's heartbeat with a doppler, and she couldn't hear it. She warned us in advance she probably wouldn't be able to find it that early, and we might only hear it if she got lucky, but it was still a bit disheartening to not be able to hear it! I still kept doubting that I was really pregnant! But seeing the baby on the ultrasound made it all very very real!
What's happening with baby: At this point the baby's skin is sensitive, and any type of touch will cause it to move. Also, when the baby's face is touched, it will open its mouth. Baby is also about 2 1/2 inches long.
And now we're up to date!!
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